Entries from September 2010

How To Stop Yelling at Your Teen-ager

September 29th, 2010 · 2 Comments

By Gina Simmons, Ph.D. She called me a “stupid bitch!”, said Angela, aged 14,  referring to her exasperated mother. Angela’s parents brought her to my office  complaining about her defiance, her angry outbursts and poor school performance.  Angela shouted and cursed at her parents and they shouted and cursed right back. Mom and Dad routinely [...]

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Denial: The Perpetrator’s Evil Accomplice

September 24th, 2010 · No Comments

By Gina Simmons, Ph.D. “I think my husband is sexually abusing our baby,” a counseling client confided.  The young mother reported disturbing observations including: mysterious abrasions on her daughter’s rear end, the child screaming every time the dad approached, and the kicker, “I saw him naked with an erection in the babies’ room last night!”  [...]

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Is There Such a Thing as a Bad Person?

September 15th, 2010 · 6 Comments

By Gina Simmons, Ph.D. This week a man in rural eastern Kentucky, furious about how his wife prepared his eggs, shot five people dead, then killed himself.  Stanley Neace’s hostile behavior over the previous few months prompted eviction proceedings from his mobile home park residence.  Apparently his family lived, for a long time, with an [...]

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What To Do When You’re Mad at Yourself

September 1st, 2010 · 2 Comments

By Gina Simmons, Ph.D. Ever have one of those days when everything seems to go wrong? Recently I returned from vacation to find our refrigerator had died a horrible death.  Greeted by the lovely aroma of decomposing food, our plans to unpack and relax promptly self-destructed.  After filling three large bags with waste from the [...]

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